How to: Double Penetration

So you are thinking of giving the old double a go? Perhaps you and your partner want to include another man for a bit of fun. Or you want to use a vibe while he is in your ass? Maybe, you don’t have a real desire, you watched the porn and it all looked so hot.

My recommendation with the double is practise makes perfect. 

This is the sort of sexual experience that you don’t want to go wrong, otherwise you may be turned off for life, or worse, find it so uncomfortable you are turned off other kinds of experimenting.

Here are some suggestions I found worked well.

1. Practise. Start alone and with your vibes. Even when your partner isn’t around. Get two nice cock sized vibes and your favourite porn. Make sure you have lots of time. Stimulate your clit with the vibe and let yourself get very wet. Relax. Enjoy. Take the time to make yourself really worked up.

I like to ease the first one into my ass, and then get the second into my vag. I find the ass one a little harder to hold, so getting that into position first works for me. Sometimes, especially if you have already had the other cock in as well, it works to lean back and sit on the two and slide them in at the same time.

Again, enjoy this. Go as slow or as fast as you want.

2. Film yourself. Take a film on your computer of yourself doing this. Then watch the video. See if it turns you on. Think about what it must be like to see this.

3. Show the video to your mate. When you know the way you like it and you are familiar with it, show the video to your partner. This gives them a chance to have what you like really well explained and will no doubt result in them being turned on. Filming yourself is sexy. Gone are the days of film you hold as a possession. Videos can be erased easily now, so filming yourself carries none of the risk it used to.

4. The first time with your partner, use a lot of lube. Make sure there is no friction. Be clean if that is important to you. If you need have a drink or some other mind altering substance, but go easy. You don’t want to be too out of it. There are some logistics involved and all you need is to be able to relax and talk if it’s not working for you.

5. If it works for you, have some DP porn handy.

6. GO FOR IT.

Have a wonderful time.